The joys and challenges of motherhood while being married to a physician.

Hello, my name is Melissa!

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Why I Write

When I was younger, my dream job was always to become a mother and my husband’s dream was to serve in medicine. I never expected both of those dreams would make me feel so alone at times though. In the year 2020, I worked as a correctional nurse during the COVID-19 pandemic. My husband and I moved away from friends and family to a new city for him start his first year of medical school. I also became a mother to our first child. It was a year full of excitement, change, fear, isolation, and loneliness. After I gave birth to my daughter, I stopped working full-time to be with my baby. However, having a newborn at home while my husband worked long hours all during pandemic lockdowns, made it a difficult time for me. I felt alone even though I’ve never been alone since becoming a mom. It has inspired me to share my experiences that have helped me overcome the feelings of despair and loneliness! I want this blog is a place for anyone who can relate and may need support through those lonely times.

Now in the year 2024, I am currently a mother to two young children, my husband is currently a PGY-1 neurology resident, and we have moved across the country for his training! I have found community, purpose, and faith that have helped me overcome my trials and find happiness. I am constantly learning new things on this long journey and I want to share with you. Follow along as I share my joys and challenges of navigating motherhood and life with a physician spouse!

Melissa Smith

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  • First Quarter of Intern Year Complete

    First Quarter of Intern Year Complete

    I underestimated how busy Kyler would be this year. His intern year is the first year of training. It consists of many rotations throughout the hospital before he focuses on neurology next year. Some of the rotations he has completed so far include: internal medicine, psychiatry, and ICU. During his internal medicine rotation, he is…

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  • Duolingo Birthday

    Duolingo Birthday

    My husband’s love for languages started when he became fluent in Spanish while serving a two year proselyting mission in Ecuador. He later earned a bachelor’s degree in French. Duolingo is a learning language app that has helped him continue practicing the languages he loves, as well as learning several new languages. When completing lessons…

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  • Ranking Medical Residencies with a Family

    Ranking Medical Residencies with a Family

    What is a medical residency? A medical residency is onsite training a doctor (MD or DO) completes after graduating from medical school. Training can last anywhere between three to seven years depending on the specialty. A medical student typically applies and interviews with multiple programs in varying locations during their last year of medical school….

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